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simplebull

25 months ago

DO YOU NOT WANT A FUNERAL SERVICE WHEN YOU DIE? DO YOU THINK THAT YOUR SPOUSE WILL FULFILL YOUR WISHES IF THEY THINK THAT IS WRONG?

PLEASE NO FUNERAL SERVICE, I BELIEVE MY SPOUSE WOULD HONOR THESE WISHES. OR I WOULD BE BACK AND SCARE THE HELL OUT OF HER IF SHE DOES'NT
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Cassie.L.Wilkerson

  25 months ago
Funerals and memorials are more so for the living then the dead - to allow a process to accept separation. Really, your going to play Jesus comeback and attack her for loving you so much that she needs a ceremony intended to gather friends, family to support her for loosing you enabling her the confidence to proceed without you. Look you have a choice sometimes the arrangements for a funeral is a process to give activity for widow to do as a process to cope with loss others it may be a burden to deal with hence pre-funeral arrangements exist -The fact is you discuss it but in the end when you are gone and she needs a gathering of individuals to aid her emotionally or etc you really don't have a say in the matter after all in death do we part and she is no longer your wife hence what last acts she chooses one last time as your wife to honor you is her choice to do or not.
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lynnmarie2u198

  25 months ago
I will have no funeral services. I have always felt,that those that matter to me will see me while I am alive and when it matters. The money that would be spent on this,can go to other things that may be of more importance to my family members who are still alive
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lilshep

  25 months ago
No funeral service. But I don't have to express it in all caps, unless that is the only way you can type, poor thing. My husband said, before he died, that if people could not visit him when he was alive, he sure did not want them staring at him when he was dead. Me, too. So he had a Direct Creamation and I will, too. It worked out perfectly for him. When these poor ignorant people called up asking when the funeral was, I told them no funeral and why. Then they were out of my hair and did not bother me anymore. I sast beside him as he slowly died in Hospice Care for two weeks. Everyone knew. I was with him 24/7. Our son was there as often as he could around his work schedule. No one else showed up. We waited and waited. We would have left the room if anyone showed up and want to speak with him alone. Even his special little Sheltie was there. But the minute he died the phone rang off the wall "When is the funeral?". Nope. No such thing. Sheesh.
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elegionaire@fuse.net

  25 months ago
yes i do want a funeral service ,as i have a lot of friends out there and relatives,and my wife would .it,s all pd. for already...
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wswaney

  25 months ago
First things first, take your finger off the 'shift' key! Okay, now worry about haunting your spouse.
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suzhappy

  25 months ago
No I don't want any sort of servive at all and I want to be cremated. My husband better honor my wishes!!
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kassielynlusignan

  25 months ago
Yes, funeral serevice. I would like to give the people who knew me one last good bye. I'm not sure....probably.
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juneracer50

  25 months ago
Yes my wife will honor my wishes and have a service at our house. She will celebrate my life with our freinds and live on.
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lholsey

  25 months ago
I currently not married, but I feel that my children would comply to my wishes, whatever they may be. I would only need a memorial service.
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mikejones0871

  25 months ago
yes i want a funeral service, i do believe that my wife would honor this.but i'm also thinking cremation would be my way to go.
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