Paul just popped in to see my fellow members and to catch up, all latest polls done. Its been a battle this week with all doctors appointments and jumping thru hoops for mum as if that wasn't enough my mere males brother yesterday had a massive stroke and we need to decide to leave him on life support or not...hard enough to make decisions but not so quickly ........tough all round.:-)smile its free and I am trying to smile today 8 hours ago