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21 months ago

How can I heal my broken heart?

Recently I was dumped after almost 4 years of being together with the love of my life. I thought I was going to get married to my soul mate. But instead I found myself abandoned in a city that we both moved here together 3 years ago without a secured job market, close friends or family members for thousands of miles. I am very broken and I am not sure how to heal...I need help!
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bbebbles596

  15 months ago
Watch lots of movies, and read lots of books about awesome single girls and their amazing lives. Then decide to be like your favorite leading lady and go for it. Sorry to hear about your breakup, but in time, hopefully you will heal and be even stronger and happier than you were before.
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tricksybell_006

  21 months ago
oh no, i am so sorry to hear that!!!
why not think about moving back to your original home town then, be close to family and friends for a while untill you sort yourself out, that helped me when i split from my last boyfriend, take care
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FLAHONEY33

  21 months ago
Yep, been there before. Except that I told him I wasn't going to uproot my whole life unless I had a ring first. Not eager to get married & wasn't dating him for the money. But why should I without more than a 'lets see what happens'? With a house, a job, family & kids that would be very foolish of me to give up a sure thing for a maybe. I can understand your situation but HE shouldn't of ever been your back up plan. We really don't know people until we're put in these stressful situations. The guy I mentioned above didn't make it beyond the 4 year mark either. I wasn't looking to waste another minute with someone who couldn't be straight with me, no matter how much I loved him or thought he was the one. Apparently, the truth was never the whole truth. Sometimes being in love is equivalent to getting kicked in the teeth. You just brush yourself off, nurse your pride & keep going. If you really need an outlet, try journaling or reading self-help books. Feeling like your doing some good for yourself makes you feel better than pouting. It might be best that you move back home if you can't find a job there. Wishing you a quick recovery & best wishes.
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shiroitoka8

  21 months ago
There is nothin i can say or do to make the pain go away. I have had the same situation before and it took me 3 years to get over it and be ready to find someone that deserved me. It is ahuge shot to your self esteem and your confidence. It just takes time, dont rush into trying to find someone else right away cause usually that is just an accident waiting to happen!! good luck to you!!
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ck_ken17

  21 months ago
You will need a lot of time to heal from this relationship. Some people say to get back out on the market and others say to take some time off to be with family and friends. You might have to go back to your family. Do what's in your heart. You are the only one who should make that decision. Good luck! You will succeed and it will make you a better person for it.
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