Don't have kids and won't be having any. Contraceptives are a great thing! Meaning for me before anyone thinks I am taking a shot at someone. Part of me doesn't really understand how so many women (not you sazzle as I don't know your situation) can not use contraceptives and then be surprised when they are suddenly pregnant - it seems to be almost like they don't understand the birds and the bees. Last time I watch Jeremy Kyle!